A Pet, A Pill, A Patch, & A Plant

A Tribute to My Bailey Girl

We rescued Bailey, our ten-year-old Maltese, in 2015 — just two months before my life completely changed with a diagnosis of stage four endometriosis. Looking back now, I don’t believe that timing was a coincidence.

Whether it was divine timing, my ancestors, or the universe, something knew I was going to need more than just my husband and children to get me through the storm that was coming.

Bailey was more than a pet. She was my emotional support animal. My best friend. My anchor. Through years of pain, hormone treatments, surgeries, and emotional lows, she never left my side.

In many ways, Bailey became my childhood pet — not by age, but because she came into my life before I knew what self-love truly felt like. She was there while I grew into myself.

And now that she’s gone, I can’t help but feel she left when she knew I was finally ready to stand on my own two feet.

The Day She Left, My Body Was in Crisis

The day before we lost Bailey, I started my estrogen patch as part of hormone replacement therapy (HRT). I was also in the middle of a brutal endometriosis flare.

For those living with endometriosis, the natural decline of estrogen is supposed to bring some relief. But choosing HRT — often necessary to manage perimenopausal symptoms — means making a painful decision:

Do I ease my hormonal imbalance, or risk prolonging my endometriosis symptoms?

It’s a cruel paradox — and one most people don’t realize we face. My body was in chaos, my emotions were already stretched thin… and then I lost Bailey.

Dabbing Through the Grief

When the pain felt unbearable, I turned to the ritual that has always held me: cannabis.

But this wasn’t just about getting high — this was a ceremony of presence.

A rosin dab became my way of coming home to myself, of honoring what I was feeling, of letting my grief speak.

There’s something sacred about dabbing with intention. In those quiet moments after Bailey passed, the plant held space for my pain. It reminded me that grief is just love with nowhere to go. It reminded me that I am allowed to mourn out loud.

The Patch, the Pill, and the Plant

I’ve tried it all: pills, patches, prescriptions. Every one of them promising relief.

But none of them ever made me feel seen — not like cannabis does.

With the patch on my skin and the grief in my chest, I returned to the one thing that brings me both peace and power: my rosin rig.

This plant isn’t just medicine — it’s memory, connection, and transformation.

Terpenes That Help Ease Grief and Hormonal Pain

As I navigated both emotional grief and the physical chaos of hormone replacement, I found the following terpenes especially helpful:

Linalool

Anti-anxiety, calming, and emotionally balancing

Found in lavender, Granddaddy Purple, and some OG crosses

Myrcene

Sedative and pain-relieving

Found in mango, hops, and strains like Bubba Kush

Limonene

Uplifting and may ease depression and mood swings

Found in citrus strains like Super Lemon Haze

Beta-Caryophyllene

Anti-inflammatory, binds to CB2 receptors

Found in black pepper, clove, and many hybrids

Cited Sources

• Cannabis and Endometriosis: A Review – Journal of Women’s Health

• The Endocannabinoid System and Estrogen – Frontiers in Endocrinology

• Terpenes and the Entourage Effect – Project CBD

If You’ve Ever Been Loved by a Dog…

Then you already know: there is no love more loyal, more unconditional, more healing than the love of a dog.

Bailey didn’t just comfort me — she carried me through the darkest parts of my life. And now, I carry her in everything I do.

To anyone grieving a pet, navigating chronic illness, or trying to rebalance their hormones while surviving emotional loss: I see you. I’m walking this too.

Light your rig. Say their name. Let your grief speak.

And let the plant remind you — you are still healing. You are still sacred. You are still here.

Operation Doom Sesh: A Smoked-Out Tribute to the Masked Man at SOB’s NYC

Date: July 10, 2025

Location: SOB’s, New York City

Hosted by: Astor Club

Reviewed by: Queenee Da Kritic | House of Queenee

What Is Operation Doom Sesh?

Every year, 710 (Oil Day) brings out the best in the concentrate community, and this year’s event—Operation Doom Sesh—was no exception. Hosted by the iconic Astor Club at SOB’s in New York City, the night was a flavorful tribute to the legendary MF DOOM, featuring live jazz, deep dabs, and villainous visuals that lit up the sesh.

First Impressions: ✨ Fast Check-In & Thoughtful Gifting

From the moment I arrived, the vibe was smooth. The check-in process? Lightning fast. No long lines, no confusion—just a warm welcome and immediate access to the night’s festivities.

Upon entry, we received a gift bag that set the tone:

• A reusable insulated tote bag (great for the environment and brand loyalty)

• Four jars of premium rosin, including:
  

• Blue Lobster by Maine Trees & washed by Mega Raw Melts (exclusive to Astor Club)

• Drip Burger (Strawguava x Double Burger) by Riverside Greenery

• Crunch Berries by Superlative Solventless

• Hazelnut Cream by Coldroom Drip

Each bag was slightly different, sparking conversation and comparison between tables all night long. No two seshers had the same lineup, which made the experience feel curated and personal.

We were also gifted:

• An Operation Doom Sesh dab mat (collab with Moodmats)

• A Lazy Susan dab tool

• A Toro Glass sticker + coupon code

💬 “Not all bags were the same…and that’s what made it so fun.”

Vibes & Venue: Nachos, Clean Air, and Classic NYC Energy

Unlike most events at SOB’s, this sesh had tables for everyone—plenty of space to relax, connect, and dab without feeling crammed. To top it off, Astor Club gifted each table a plate of nachos, a classy touch considering you usually have to pay for food there. It was a welcome surprise that elevated the hospitality.

The air? Perfectly filtered.

Cloudy enough to know you were at a real sesh, but never overwhelming.

The service? Top tier.

There was always water or a drink within reach.

Entertainment: 🎶 The Perfect Sonic Pairing

Music was a huge part of what made this night unforgettable. Between the visuals and the live soundscape, it was a true tribute to DOOM and the culture he represents.

Here’s the lineup that kept the sesh flowing:

🎤 Hosted by: Lord Sear + Kurious Jorge

🎧 DJ Sets by: J-Rocc of the World Famous Beat Junkies

🎷 Live Jazz: Christopher McBride and the Whole Proof (with special guest Jeffrey Miller)

🎥 Custom visuals by: Goldwatch — a fitting tribute that wrapped the entire night in DOOM energy.

Final Verdict: 🎫 Was the $250 Ticket Worth It?

Absolutely.

This was more than a party. It was a cultural homage, a legacy celebration, and a community experience.

• 🔥 4 jars of high-end rosin

• 🧊 Premium swag (tote, dab mat, dab tool)

• 🍴 Complimentary food

• 🎷 Live jazz & hip-hop icons

• 🗽 A venue filled with history and heart

• 💨 An inclusive space for new and seasoned dabbers alike

Queenee Approved. This event honored the plant, the pioneers, and the power of community in one unforgettable night.

Honoring Legacy and Elevating Community

What set Operation Doom Sesh apart was its dedication to legacy cultivators, solventless excellence, and real cannabis culture. Big love to the sponsors who made this night possible:

@archiveoregon2.0

@archiveseeds

@archiveseedbank

@commonwealth_seeds

@g.dot.ny

@mainetrees

@melti.mfg

@pleasant_effects

@puffco

@talkingterps

@uncles_farm

@adhddead

@coldroomdrip_mom

@lionboldt_farms

@highroad207

@therealblizzard

@highroad_maine

@moodmats

@myedibledealer2

@sourwavez

@sumerselect

@riversidecannabisgreenery

@undertow_cannabis

@toroglass

@watson.supply

@theriptip

@ressanreserve

@theterpometer

What Was In Your Bag?

If you attended Operation Doom Sesh, I want to hear from you! What strain was your favorite? Did you trade or sesh with someone new? I Did (shoutout to Mike Drop a comment or tag @HouseOfQueenee with your recap.

This post is part of my new series: Queenee the Kritic — honest reviews for those who live the sesh life.

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How to Properly Dab the Queenee Way: A Heart-Conscious, Flavor-Focused Ritual

Dabbing isn’t just a method—it’s a healing ritual.

As someone who dabs daily to manage chronic pain and inflammation, I’ve developed a ritual that centers care, clarity, and cleanliness. This guide teaches you how to dab safely and with intention—The Queenee Way—with tips that prioritize your lungs, heart, and full-body wellness. This blog contains affiliate links.

Whether you’re brand new or a seasoned dabber, these steps will help you preserve flavor, reduce harm, and elevate your experience.

Step 1: Use Clean, Quality Tools

The foundation of a great dab starts with your gear. I recommend using:

A Campfire Quartz banger or terp slurper

• A dab tool made of glass, quartz, or ceramic

• A carb cap

• 91–99% isopropyl alcohol

• Cotton swabs

Why it matters: Quartz retains heat better and doesn’t release metals into your vapor. Clean tools = clean medicine = clean lungs.

Step 2: Know Your Temperature

Dabbing at the right temp is EVERYTHING—especially for heart-conscious users.

Ideal dab temp range: 480°F – 500°F

This range:

• Protects your terpenes

• Produces smoother vapor

• Minimizes harshness on your lungs and heart

Avoid dabbing above 600°F. High temps burn your concentrates and create harmful byproducts.

Pro tip: Use a dab temp reader or e-nail for consistent results.

Step 3: Sanitize Before You Heat

Clean your banger with a cotton swab dipped in ISO before every dab session.

Let the alcohol fully evaporate before applying heat to avoid flammable fumes.

✨ Queenee Standard: Every dab is a ritual. Sanitize like it’s sacred.

Step 4: Heat Then Cool

1. Torch your banger or slurper until the bottom glows—about 20–30 seconds.

2. Let it cool down for 30–60 seconds (depending on your quartz thickness).

Use a dab timer or temp gun to hit that sweet low-temp window.

Step 5: Inhale Mindfully

Now you’re ready to dab:

• Drop your concentrate into the banger

• Cap it

• Inhale slow and steady

Sit while you dab, especially if you’re THC-sensitive or managing heart issues. Deep, intentional breathing helps your body receive the medicine more gently.

Step 6: Clean After Every Dab

While your banger is still warm:

• Wipe it out with a clean cotton swab

• Use a little ISO for sticky residue (then let it dry completely)

This extends the life of your gear and keeps every dab tasting fresh.

Bonus: Heart-Healthy Dabbing Tips (Queenee Style)

Whether you’re dealing with inflammation, fibromyalgia, or early signs of heart disease like me, here’s how to dab with care:

Hydrate before and after your dab

• Choose high-terpene, moderate-THC dabs

• Dab seated, in a calm space

• Don’t hold it in—deep breathing matters more

• Avoid back-to-back dabs to prevent spikes in heart rate

• Use clean gear every time to reduce exposure to leftover combustion

Banger & Slurper Care Checklist

Wipe after every dab

Deep clean after every dab

Soak in ISO (never torch wet glass)

Replace when you see chipping or permanent clouding

Final Thoughts from Queenee

Dabbing isn’t just about getting high—it’s about healing smart. When you dab the Queenee way, you honor your body with intention, hygiene, and heart awareness. Let this be your new ritual—safe, sacred, and full of flavor.

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710: The Day of Oil – A Love Letter to Concentrates & Community

If 420 is for the flower heads, then 710 is our day—the one for the dabbers, the concentrate lovers, the solventless soldiers, the rosin rebels. It’s a day to honor the beauty and medicinal power of oil in all its forms: live rosin, sauce, diamonds, hash, wax, and beyond.

What is 710?

710, when flipped upside down, spells “OIL”—and just like 420, it’s become a cultural holiday in the cannabis community. The term started gaining traction around 2011 and has grown into a national (and now global) celebration of cannabis concentrates. Whether you’re dropping a dab, puffing a rosin vape, or rolling up infused joints, 710 is for those who elevate their healing and recreational experience with the power of oil.

My First 710: A Moment That Changed Me

My first 710 was back in 2022 at Astor Club in New York City—and it’s a day I’ll never forget. I want to give a heartfelt thanks to Kym B from Tribe Tokes, Aliiice from WookSauce Winery & Girls in Green, for making that day extra special. It was more than just an event; it was a coming home. I was surrounded by people who understood what it meant to choose dabs every day—not just for fun, but for survival.

Why 710 Matters to Me

710 isn’t just about taking a fat glob—it’s about honoring concentrates as medicine. As someone living with stage 4 endometriosis and fibromyalgia, concentrates have saved my life. They helped me come off 16 pharmaceutical medications, including opioids. They gave me back control over my body, my health, and my voice.

Each year since, I’ve spent 710 with my community—celebrating healing, sharing information, dabbing together, and destigmatizing this sacred plant. We honor the growers, extractors, budtenders, and caregivers who make this healing possible.

Building a Community Around the Dab

710 is more than a holiday. It’s an opportunity to educate, celebrate, and empower. Every dab taken is an act of resistance and relief. Every conversation about terpenes and temperature is a step toward normalization. Every 710 spent in community reminds me that I’m not alone on this path.

I’m proud to continue this work through House of Queenee—teaching dab safety, reviewing tools and terps, and creating safe spaces for people to explore concentrates with confidence.

To Many More 710s to Come…

I look forward to all the 710s still ahead—the big seshes, the quiet solo globs, the joyful noise of a torch and a slurp. Whether you’re new to dabbing or a seasoned head, 710 is our time to shine.

Thank you to every one of you

Why the Campfire Quartz V2 Slurper Is My Go-To Banger Right Now 🔥

Big love to Campfire Quartz for sending over a PR box that had me geeking out like a true terp lover! I’ve had my eye on the V2 Slurper for over six months, and it did not disappoint. From the first hit to the final clean, this piece has earned a permanent spot in my daily rotation—and here’s why.

Aesthetics That Hit Hard

The V2 Slurper is low-profile with a beautifully designed bowl and a tight disc seat that gives you an incredibly clean pull. Not only does it hold heat like a champ, but when cleaned properly, it looks practically brand new. That shine hits every time.

Built for Daily Dabbers

I first heard about Campfire Quartz through Kenny at Village Sensations in Nanuet, NY (shout out to Kenny!), and ever since, I’ve been a loyal fan. Why? Because these bangers are durable, affordable, and comparable to high-end slurpers that cost double the price. You get serious value without sacrificing quality.

What Was in the PR Box?

Campfire Quartz didn’t just stop at the V2 Slurper. They also sent over:

• A Ruby Pearl Co pearl set

• A pack of Chirp Swabs

• A 710 Spatula Set – perfect for scraping every last drop from your jars

• Signature Campfire Quartz dab mat

• Stickers (because who doesn’t love stickers?)

If you haven’t used the 710 Spatula Set yet—add to cart now. It’s a must-have for getting the most out of your concentrates.

Supporting Grassroots Cannabis Education

One of the reasons I rock with Campfire Quartz so hard is because of their unwavering support for grassroots creators and educators in the cannabis space. They show up for the community. Every Dab Bar I run, every educational table I curate—Campfire Quartz is always part of the setup.

Want to Grab One?

If you’re ready to upgrade your dab game, visit campfirequartz.com and use my code:

QUEENEE for 10% off your order.

Or if you’re in the New York area, stop by Village Sensations in Nanuet and tell Kenny that Queenee sent you!

📸 Stay Connected

I’ll be posting unboxing videos, cleaning tips, and full reviews of the V2 Slurper on my Instagram and YouTube—so make sure to follow and subscribe!

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